Hi, Arvind!!!
Rahul (getting back to routine) 
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Hi Arvind R,
Well its awkward to write this but I feel its the right thing to do:)
To everyone,
A couple years back, me and Arvind had a fight on this forum over some issue and things got real nasty before we blocked each other completely from interacting here. Thats the reason I am writing this on the open forum cos I cannot scribble Arvind personally nor I have his email:)
I realize that was the heat of moment and the way we both reacted was naive. Dialogue is always the best form of resolve but even then, our Dialogue were bizarre and we both were trying to prove each other wrong which did lead to the fatal end of communication:) I sincerely hope we can forget the differences we had then and start afresh.
Please understand that this hand of friendship I am putting forward is not out of GUILT (because I don’t have any) but out of respect for you as an individual. There is a lot of hatred going all over and I sincerely feel that we both does not need it.
I gave a lot of thought about writing this after so long but I also feel everyone in their life do things which hurt people and they should try and rectify them at-least once. This is my one chance to see if I can rectify it. Even if not, I can live with it, but I don’t wanna think that I did not try:)
Its okay if we cannot be friends again but forgiving each other will make me a happy. Now the ball is in your court. I hope to hear it from you.
Thanks,
Rahul (AJ)
PS: I am going to try and patch things with everyone I had fight on this forum. I think I don’t need any baggage left behind on this forum before I leave, especially the hatred ones.
Posted on May 08, 2011
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Sojan Chacko said
Hmmm! Babubhai you are really great! Tumne mere dil ki baat kah di hai!!! Yes I agree with you that here we all are just kalakars jo aaj yahan hai aur shayad kal yahan nahi bhi ho! phir kahe ka jagda aur kahe ka blocking:) Achha nahi lage tho ek kaan se sunkar doosre kaan se nikal do:)
Babu Nm said
thanks so so much sojan bhai…u r a wonderful person who can understand things easily…and a salute for you……from the bottom of my heart…rahul c ….how much we loves u….be happy man….common let rockkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
music is all about heart and soul KEEP our heart and soul clean
Rahul (getting back to routine) said
Babu bhai, Well I am glad to see your reply here. I completely agree that we all are kalakaars here and sometimes tends to get too hurt with some comments. But then, I never ever comment to discourage the artist, infact I had always encouraged singers with balanced feedbacks because a lot of people did the same to me when I started here. I have received some horrible demeaning comments on my posts (will not name the people but they still are on this forum) but then its their personal opinion, which is okay in my eyes. Not everyone will like ur song but the respect for the artist or his art should never be made fun of.
As a commenter if your feedback is not taken seriously, then also its okay. But when it is disagreed or made fun of without any rationale, then things get out of hand. I have been there and done all that.
I always accepted negative comments graciously and tried to improve upon them. Sometimes, this process is hampered by someone taking it too personally and then having fights. As time moves on you grow as a person and realize how stupid those fights were. Even we both had our differences but I hope even we can have a fresh start. Thanks for you love and support and your understanding in this matter is much appreciated.
@Sojan bhai – You were also in my list to receive my friendship hand after our recent episode. Jhagda aur blocking sab insaani fitrat hai and if there is no realization to that individual, there will be no resolve.
I hope I am taking one step here and hope the other person takes one step too or we are just going in circles. Hope that latter does not happen. I am full of optimism these days:)
“Coming together is a beginning, staying together is progress, and working together is success” – Henry Ford
Nice thread and I am glad to see this heart felt discussion. AJ if you remember, because I still remember(:))))))) had posted a song 3 yrs ago….and you just whipped me…LOL. The only thing I did was to go and then delete the song from my space. Sometimes in the heat of the moment, we put down our thoughts in good faith. Sometimes we love a composition or a song to such an extent that even a slight imperfection would bring out a different reaction. Its all because of our passion for music, some are extremly good trained singers, some are good singers self trained and some are working hard to become good……we are all bounded by just 1 small thing and thats music. At the end music should always win ……great stuff !!!!
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In friendship there is flattery….William Shakespeare.
Sojan Chacko said
Dear Rahulbhai:) I never took our episode seriously aur mein bhi tumhare jaise achhe doston ko khona nahi chahta hoon. So don’t take anything seriously ye sab tho chalta rahta hai:) Jagda hoga tho hi pyaar badega aur pyaar hoga tho hi jagda hoga:)
Rahul (getting back to routine) said
Hi Sree, you never miss a chance to make me go LOL. Yes, I do remember that Atif Aslam song and would like to take this opportunity to tell everyone that we both did not start of very well either:) But we r best of the buddies now and people with mutual respect.
Thanks for chipping in buddy. Hope we all are changed people (cos I am) after this discussion here.
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arey my dearest chotoo brother….what happened to you…we all loves you a lot…and for me u r just like my younger brother….and am a man who can understand things easily….we all love musik and we are all kalakar…and u know what its by nature we get heated easily…heheheh thats the probs with kalakars….and rahul….i love u …and i love to be ur elder brothe…and i hope each and everyone in this forum will understand you …bhai…be always a bhai to me
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